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Friday, April 22, 2016

Discovering your Strengths - Introduction


When I joined the workforce 2 years ago, I've long heard the saying that most people don't like their job, they simply work for a living. It saddens me greatly to hear that because I've always been interested in helping people find their passion. It gives me inherent motivation to know that you really do love what you're doing. That face lit up with motivation and engagement is what I hope to see among the faces in a crowd. It's hard to find someone passionate about their jobs these days...

As the saying goes:

Work that you do for a living is your job, while work that you enjoy is your career.

Though the majority of the workforce fall into the "just a job" category, I have always held the belief that I could find a job that I enjoy. Why be among the 99% of the majority when you can be that special one in the minority?

Everyone has talents. It's either you are aware of it or you aren't. Being aware of your own talents is exhilarating. There's so much more you could everyday with that knowledge. You feel empowered, confident, and ready to have a fulfilling time no matter the task. Many people like to work on their weaknesses to become better. However, let's be honest here. It takes far more effort to work on your weaknesses compared to making your talents SHINE. I'm not saying that we should ignore our weaknesses, but that fact that we have downplayed the potential that our talents could bring us. I really love the following quote:

"You cannot be anything you want to be - but you can be a lot more of who you already are"
 -Tom Rath

So, let's begin.

I was introduced to StrengthsFinder a while back, and I benefited a lot from the reading and the analysis that I am always sharing about this book whenever I meet anyone. StrengthsFinder 2.0 is authored by Tom Rath and this book introduces you to 34 themes of talents/strengths that one might possess. This book also provides an assessment for you to discover your top 5 strengths. I must say that some of the strengths I have came as a surprise!

So what are Strengths?
According to the book,

Talent (your natural way of thinking, behaving i.e. personality) x multiply by
Investment (time spent practicing, developing yourself, increasing knowledge)

= Strength (the ability to consistently provide near-perfect performance)

To help you have a quick understanding of the 34 themes of strengths, I've summarized them into short 1-2 liners below. Hope you enjoy the read!


1) Achiever
Every day starts from zero. You have to accomplish many things in order to feel good about yourself.
2) Activator
Nothing is ever achieved unless action is seen.
3) Adaptability
You’ll never be daunted in any situation. “We’ll see how it goes.”
4) Analytical
If I make a claim, it’s got to be backed up with facts and logical reasoning.
5) Arranger
Last minute changes in schedule or flight timing? No worries, I’ll get them all sorted in minutes.
6) Belief
Your work must be meaningful and in lined with your belief system.
7) Command
Take charge, give orders, that’s your nature.
8) Communication
You like to explain, describe, host and to write in the most vivid manner.
9) Competition
It’s not an excellent job unless it’s better than your peers.
10) Connectedness
You connect the dots and instantly realize the reason behind things.
11) Consistency
No one should get an unfair advantage because of their background or connections.
12) Context
Before making a decision, let’s look at how it was done in the past.
13) Deliberative
Be careful; make each decision vigilantly as if you’re stepping within a minefield.
14) Developer
You enjoy developing people’s potential to help them experience success.
15) Discipline
Routines and deadlines are the best way to reach your targets. You plan diligently.
16) Empathy
You can sense the emotions of those around you.
17) Focus
You need a clear destination. What is my goal and how am I going to get there?
18) Futuristic
Visions of the future energize you. What will I be in 10 years’ time?
19) Harmony
Let’s not argue over this, there must be a common ground.
20) Ideation
Your eyes sparkle when you hear an interesting idea.
21) Includer
Judgement hurts, discrimination kills, no one should be ignored.
22) Individualization
A keen observer of each person’s unique qualities, you build the most productive teams.
23) Input
You’ll never get an information overload.
24) Intellection
You’re the type that takes a 1 hour shower just to focus on thinking.
25) Learner
No room for growth, time to move.
26) Maximizer
Nothing beats transforming something of decent quality to something superb.
27) Positivity
No matter what, there’s always a funny side to life.
28) Relator
You enjoy a deepening of the relationship, that’s the way to understand a person truly.
29) Responsibility
Mind your health, you take psychological ownership for anything you commit to.
30) Restorative
Have a problem? Let me fix it.
31) Self-Assurance
Always trust your own judgement. It’ll be right.
32) Significance
I want to prove myself, to be recognized and admired by all.
33) Strategic
You sort through the clutter, find the best route to conquer.
34) Woo (Winning over others)
Networking energizes you.


It's my goal to be certified as a Strengths Coach. If you'll like to support me on this cause, click here.

For those of you who know me personally, let’s have some fun with a little quiz: Among the 34 themes of strengths, which do you think is my top 5?
Click here to place your votes!





Saturday, December 14, 2013

Malaysia Church Camp 2013

I am really excited.

I'm going for a bi-annual Church Camp retreat this coming Monday! 4 days 3 nights at Johor.
when people hear that I'm going for a church camp, the first thing that came to their mind was an image like this...

a vast jungle
sleeping in tentage
lots of mosquitoes

Well, the church camp that I'll be going to is a relaxing and 'luxurious' one! And my whole family is going. The hotel has a gym, sauna, swimming pool etc. We get to listen to sermons there, sing songs to worship God and also play games together. The food is going to be great too.

Promise i'll do a detailed sharing with lotsa photos when i'm back. Pls poke me and remind me not to be lazy :P



Saturday, December 7, 2013

Why my internet so lag??

Why would you do if your mobile phone can't load any websites at all while you are on the go?

*Click...
Waits for a while.
Waits for 10s.
Waits for 30s.
Ignores it *
Check back.
It still doesn't load... -_-

Check "Enable 3G", Yes, enabled.

yes, i'm still running on 3G not 4G yet, but still... it should load right?
I was living without internet on the go for a couple of days until I found the REASON why. You need to know this. If you're facing the same problem as me...

So I just conducted a random speed test and found that my download speed and upload speed is like 0.00Mbps?! How can this be possible? No wonder I can't load any websites at all...



Then I changed a particular setting... and tried the speedtest again. Tada! Look! There's at least some download speed now! Not fantastic, but at least my websites are loading now. Feeling puzzled? Want to know the KEY? ahaha


The key lies in changing the setting for "Enable LTE". The weird thing is, when I enable LTE on my 3G phone, it can't load any websites at all. ZERO download speed. Isn't LTE supposed to make your websites load faster? Though I'm not using an LTE enabled phone, isn't it an irony that the speed is slower when you enable LTE? Actually there's no speed to talk about at all since it's ZERO. hmmm..

So, I did the same experiment on my friends' Samsung Galaxy S4 with LTE running on 3G network. Differing results obtained. 

With "Enable LTE", the speed is faster than without "Enable LTE". Such a mystery... If you could explain why this is happening, please enlighten us!


Speed for thought today





Tuesday, November 26, 2013

Fruitful Work

Sitting outside forever 21 now waiting for dale. In times like this, I wished I brought a book. Since I didn't, let me think about life... Lol

As I am about to start work soon, I ponder about the meaning of work. What is work? Labour? Can work be anything interesting or fruitful?

I thought.

The sales assistant at forever 21 is doing her work. She is assisting customers in their purchases. The customers at forever 21 are technically not doing work. They are shopping. Recalling the book, following Jesus in the real world, work is essentially serving others. Whatever work you do, the common thing is it benefits others. It serves society. And in return, u earn your living. As the book says, ppl often work to live. Few live to work. Work can be fruitful. In the idealistic world, work is about fulfilling your passion. One derives personal satisfaction from work as one puts his abilities to good use. However, things are not as simple as such now. Work is not only passion. It may not even reach the level to be considered passion. Work can be a source of societal pressure from the status it seemingly confers upon individuals.

One of my church friend recently shared a link on a sermon about work. In it, it says that as long as we don't follow the spiritual principle of work, 2 things will happen. We either treat work as too important and then we burn out, OR we treat work as too unimportant and be cynical. And in it, it further mentions that, only when we follow God's principle of work, could we then find rest in working. I gathered my thoughts subsequently. Working for God should mean during work time I work hard at work. But during rest time, I enjoy my rest.

Food for thought.

Saturday, October 5, 2013

A sustained journey

Realized it's been pretty long since I last blogged. hmm.. is blogging a sustained journey for me? Should I continue blogging regularly. Am i providing value to others through my blog posts. In the initial stages, the very reason I started this blog is to share. I believe good things should be shared. Happiness is contagious! So... hope whatever I've been sharing, my thoughts, updates, can bring some entertainment and advice to your daily lives.

Started work for about 3 months now. It's been a great learning experience and still adapting. Having an activation at Cine this weekend. Check it o

Church wise, i'm starting to learn flower arrangements! haha. This is sth I really look forward to. Will be going for my first session later. And hopefully there's sth nice for me to show and post up on my blog later.

As for my polymer clay work, i've created a few new designs. BUT, hasn't yet to take the product shoot photos. Hope they all come in soon :)

Short update. Ta daa!




Monday, June 3, 2013

The First of Us All


Last saturday, I attended the first wedding of a friend. How time flies. The period of talk about graduation, finding a job, graduation trips and also weddings (for some early ones). It's indeed heart warming to see a friend getting married. And it's the first. Not those from the older generation but finally one amongst us.

They were both Christians and it was held as a church wedding. As usual, the girls were late except jx. haha the one always on time. We almost missed the grand entrance of the bride! that's really terrible. Running in heels were horrible too. Ended up home with 3 holes on my feet :x.

Here's the lovely picture with the couple!



And of course, I'm finally back from my 3 weeks grad trip. There were lots of thoughts and inspirations. I will leave it till the photos are ready. It has dawned upon me that I am entering the next stage of my life. Stepping into the workforce. Feelings of excitement mixed with reluctance to leave the schooling years. The commencement will put everything to a beautiful end. For now, looking "forward" to the release of NUS results tmr. Al l the best friends!

Thursday, April 25, 2013

It's OVER!

One year. 12 months. Weeks of hard work and determination. It's officially OVER!

Today's thesis presentation went very well. Thank God for His mercy and grace. I was worrying over it the past few days. In a blink of an eye. It was all over.

It's ironic that I spent days worrying but only 1 day to rejoice. Many a times, I worry for nothing. But when it's over, I don't really reflect and learn from it. This time, I will.

What is Faith? I asked my mother yesterday. "If only we humans can stop worrying. Wouldn't everything be smooth sailing?" Not in the sense that there's no challenges in life, but that we would be able to overcome all challenges and not worry unduly about them. I learnt that, escaping is not a solution. Embrace it. Imagine yourself overcoming it and you will feel less afraid. I like to think of it in relation to time. Since time pass so fast, it doesn't make sense to worry so much about it and make your time bitter. Treat every single day equally. Don't let the worry for any day spoil the other days. I know it's hard. But I'll try. :) Worries never end unless I dismiss them as worries.




Friday, April 19, 2013

A really long break.

It's been really long since I blogged. Apologies. Looking at this blog gives me a sense of achievement as I reminisce about how I was so excited about designing and creating a blog to provide entertainment, fun and useful information to others at the very beginning.

How time flies. As I grow older, I begin to appreciate and understand when elders give the passing phrase "you children have all grown up". When I was in my teens, I couldn't really understand this concept of growing older. It didn't really hit upon me that I would eventually become an old granny one day. Elders often say this "it's good to be young. Youth is the best present." I would only smile and nod in agreement, BUT not really understanding and feeling the impact of its deeper meanings. Now that I have aged slightly since then, I think I get it. Especially now that I am soon entering a new stage of my life.

I've always wondered where did the Year 4s disappear to after leaving school. I know they have gone to their respective workplace, but it just seemed as though they all vanished instantly. I no longer spot them around in school. Very soon, it's my turn. I'm going to perform a disappearing act! haha.

Life's a process that you can't turn back. I remember I read somewhere that all things come to an end. No matter which part of your life you are at now, remember to treasure it. That stage will pass. When that happens, look forward to the better future. :)



Thursday, January 10, 2013

Please help me with 1 min survey! :)


Dear Friends,

Thank you very much to those who have helped me complete this 1 min survey. Unfortunately, I am still short of the sample size. :( 

BUT... I'll persevere and keep asking more people to help me! 

And you! please help me too, will you? 

you can do it another time for other services you have used before! Or share the link with your family and friends. Your kindness will go a long long way!

 Thank you! Thank you!


 Sincerely appreciated!!

P.S Can't wait for this big burden to be lifted off my shoulders. And when that day happens, i'll shout out!

Hooray!





Saturday, December 1, 2012

HELP! Survey frenzy



Hello Friends in Singapore!
I need a little help from all of you. I'm currently working on my Honours Thesis on the subject of Recommend-A-Friend programs and would need 1000+ respondents for this really short survey. Approx 1 min.
You can do it multiple times as well because it works by randomization. Just be sure you don't repeat for the same company/service option. Please help me forward to your friends and family too!
Thank you very much! :) Really appreciate the help!
Have a great day ahead! :D
Cheers,
Jinci


Friday, November 30, 2012

New Collection!

It's Christmas! Well, not exactly. It's still in Nov. BUT... Christmas's around the corner. Isn't it the perfect time to stock up on presents for that special someone or someones? hahaha

At JRareto, you can find a range of gifts below $20 and each unique piece comes with a beautiful jewelry box and handmade packaging. (worth $4) An alcohol swab is also included for sterilization.


This pair of earrings below was sold recently. I packaged it in this nice little small jewelry case and included a hand drawn card.


So let's see some of the new arrivals! or rather, newly made!

This piece of necklace is one of my favourite so far. I think it's rather simple yet sweet and classy. The Swarovski crystal dangling below the rose has a neat bead cap on it. I kind of like the bronze chain too!

This item is currently on sale now on my Etsy shop at

http://www.etsy.com/shop/JRareto



This is also one of my favourite piece in this new collection. The Dusty Pink rose goes well with the clear crystal green and brown beads. Kind of vintage and victorian looking. 



This piece below... hmm reminds me of a faerie in a forest. So I named it Forest Delight. Sounds like a cake name right? Makes me feel like eating Black Forest Cake now. 



Christmas hat! 


Lovely roses studs. My mom loves the pink ones. I told my friend and she said of course moms love the pink ones. Cause they want their daughters to look sweet. lol 

Of course, I must cater to people with different tastes! So I made 3 other colour variations. 

Turquoise Blue
Cherry Red
Fuchsia Purple
Pastel Pink

These studs are on sale too! :)



The "pink panther" range cause all the roses are pink!




Want to see more?

http://www.etsy.com/shop/JRareto 

or check it out under My Collections.

:D

Wednesday, October 24, 2012

My First Sale! :)


Thank God I made my first sale yesterday! It came so suddenly and surprisingly. I sold the most expensive item in my shop to my brother's friend who came to our house to work on a project. It's like a  miracle happen! Totally didn't expect it. But it's all God's grace.

I still remember how I was quite listless about having no orders from the online platform and I also remember praying to God to lead the way. I told myself not to be so impatient and just take things naturally. To me, having someone buy my items is something I could not imagine. And now, it has happened.

I immediately thought about how worried I am about my thesis and future job. I'm worried about my future. But, many past perfect examples have shown that I only need to trust in Him. There's no need for worries. Simply not necessary.

Without worries, life would be much happier.

And who doesn't want a happier life?

So...Stop worrying and Start trusting!


Monday, September 24, 2012

Over the Moon


YAY I'm over the moon!

I have finally launched my online shop at Etsy.. Dreams do come true. I am actually quite a "3-minute hot" person and hence, I could never imagine myself doing something so concrete. View my listings are like wow. Sense of personal achievement. It doesn't matter so much if there isn't any purchases. But most importantly, it's a place to host my collections. :)

Check it out under the My Collections page!





Cameron Highlands Day 2

The 2nd day of tour was a free and easy one. We did not book any tour with Titiwangsa.

The only issue we had is transportation since we didn't drive there. So how do we get our way around?
After consulting the hotel receptionist, we have the option of hiring a taxi.

Min hours to be hired is 3 hours. Each hour is 20 Rm, so that makes it 60 Rm.

With the taxi, we first travelled to Boh Tea plantation!


Beautiful scenery! 


As typical tourists, we took pictures with the signboards.


Tour guide explaining the history of Boh Tea...


Hmm..smells nice. Shower gel made from tea leaves?!


I bought back one pack of this Teacino. Foamy and sweet.


Little cottage outside the exhibition area.



So, after spending half a day... I'm naturally famished. What's new? :P Time to eat some delicious scones and drink Teh at the strategically located cafe. Why strategically located? Cause it presents such a beautiful view of the Boh Tea plantations due to its high elevation.

Imagine...sipping a cup of hot tea and nibbling your scones on a cooling morning. Over looking huge patches of tea plantations..wahhh


The view you get!




After the 1st stop at Boh Tea, it's FREE AND EASY time! We took a cab and travelled to Tanah Rata!  Decided to hunt for this restaurant called KouGen as it has many good reviews online! It is a open kitchen concept restaurant that sells Japanese food.



My oh My. If you do come here. PLEASE. Do not miss trying the FRESHEST california rolls made by them. Take a look. Such vibrant colours and fresh ingredients. I love it! Being the greedy me, I ordered another one after finishing my meal.



After seeing these delicious food, you may wonder, is it expensive? Totally not. It's in fact so affordable for its price that I stuffed myself with so much food during lunch and was too full afterwards. :S haha

 

Street view at Brinchang. That's where I dyed my hair on impulse. :D


STEAMBOAT again! Nom Nom Nom. I love food.





Monday, September 3, 2012

Who am I and What do I want

In the final year of my studies.

Heard of pre-grad crisis? I'm not experiencing that now thankfully but....I do think a lot about life for me in future. I'm an idealist. By my nature, I think a lot. I often asked rather philosophical questions about life. I have been described as having potential to be an author, writer, counsellor or even a spiritual leader by many personality tests. Well, personality tests can't explain 100% of any individual, so that's why I am currently not aspiring to any of the above occupations.

Have you ever thought deeper about life?

When I was young, I thought that the only place that has jobs is the financial district area. I didn't fathom the thought of people working in the heartlands. I'm not sure why I have such narrow views of job opportunities. And of course, I thought that the only jobs in the world are that of business related. Either you buy "invisible" products, or you buy real products. But now, I see the bigger world.

Yes I study marketing, and I can imagine the job opportunities for marketeers. You simply market the product. But now, I have managed to bridge the gap between the product you see at supermarkets and the product from raw materials. That's where engineers, scientists, researchers etc come into play!

I used to think Science is boring because I don't see the job prospects for it. But now, I think Science is cool. I think more people study Business than Science, so naturally the rarer the cooler.

It's fascinating how people have different perspectives and personality. That's why I think traveling brings about a hard to described kind of feeling and learning. You always get that "WOW" feeling when you step overseas. You see another city, that feels so NEW to you. You'll never get that experience and feeling elsewhere. Similarly, I never imagined myself being able to live away from Singapore. But having done that, I begin to see things in another light.

Every city has a system. The political, infrastructure, jobs opportunities. It's the same. They just take different physical forms.

I feel so intrigued in thoughts.

Yes, I'm an idealist. But I choose to believe I'm also the thinker.

So what does that makes me?

An idealistic thinker?



Thursday, August 30, 2012

Cameron Highlands Day 1

After the frightening night, it's time to enjoy!

Let me present to you...beautiful Cameron Highlands!



We booked only the tickets for the bus without any tour, but not to worry because when you are reaching Cameron Highlands, the tour guide will start giving out pamplets to ask you join their tour.

We are given many options for different tours by Titiwangsa, which is the major tour agency in Cameron. 

LEISURE TOUR
Price: RM 25.00 per adult
          RM 20.00 per child
Duration of tour: 3-3.5 hours
Time of departure: 930am or 2.30pm daily

This tour brings you to the different attractions around the Equatorial hotel which we stayed in. Good tour for families and elderly as the name suggests, leisure tour. Some attractions would be market square, honey bee centre, sam poh temple, rose centre and butterfly house. However, we are not so interested in visiting these places so we skipped this tour.


NATURE DISCOVERY TOUR
Price: RM 60.00 per adult
          RM 50.00 per child
Duration of tour: 4-4.5 hours
Time of departure: 930am daily

This tour is like those hiking type. You get to visit Mount Brinchang, trek around the mossy forest, visit the famous BOH tea planation. It's a pretty good tour, especially for young people. But since we are only interested in the BOH tea and not the other attractions... no mossy forest, no hiking...just a leisure one will do. So, we didn't book this tour too.


AGRO DELIGHT TOUR
Price: RM 65.00 per adult
          RM 55.00 per child
Duration of tour: 4.5-5 hours
Time of departure: 2.30am daily

We went with this tour! This tour brings us to the cactus farm which has so many different types of cactus. My mom likes plants a lot so I bought back one for her. We also get to go to strawberry farm with self picking of strawberries allowed - the major highlight of our trip.


SUNRISE SPECTACULAR

Price: RM 65.00 per adult
          RM 55.00 per child
Duration of tour: 2.5 hours
Time of departure: 6.00am daily
(Tour fare includes a light breakfast of tea/coffee/milo with pie and strawberry muffin)

We took this tour too. The tour guide was describing how beautiful the sunrise is. You see the colours slowing unfolding. There's red yellow, pink, blue, violet. Wow... a must catch!



In summary, we took 2 of the 4 tours mentioned. The first tour that we went was the AGRO DELIGHT tour that takes place in the afternoon.

This is the organic farm. Those pots are actually the strawberry plants.



Loves chilli? Take THIS challenge. This is the spiciest chilli in the world. The tour guide told us that you can literally die from eating this chilli. Just by licking this chilli, you'll already be fuming hot and feeling sick. One bite of it... you're gone. SO POTENT! For the dare devils, give it a try? :P




Next stop is the CACTUS POINT. Lots of cactus here and some other plants. Pitcher.


I dislike those medusa looking cactus. Give me the creeps. I like those one single round ball with needles type.


Look at this beautiful cactus! It's so symmetrically round. And of course, it's the perfect gift for my mom. Bought it home for just RM 2. 


Here comes the major highlight. STRAWBERRY PICKING! 
We were brought Kok Lim Strawberry farm to do the picking. 
There are many strawberry farms in Cameron, but some farms are better if you wish to pick the strawberries. Some farms have smaller strawberries due to different varieties. The ones at Kok Lim are imported from Holland, which are big, red and juicy. So I assume you are going for big red ones, then definitely Kok Lim!

Another famous farm is the Big Red strawberry farm. They also offer strawberry picking but the strawberries there are much smaller. We were also brought to Big Red for a visit and to purchase their strawberry products. 


You have to pay RM 30 for you to enter and pick strawberries. With that sum of money paid, you are allowed to bring home 1/2 kg of the strawberries you picked. If you pick less than 1/2 kg, they will top it up for you. If you pick more, then you pay for the extra.



This is the FRESH vegetables farm.


See! So Fresh.

At the cafe, we can buy fresh salad! Free and easy, pick and choose. The salad also comes with the fresh strawberries. We never knew strawberries taste great with thousand island sauce.



Steamboat dinner at Titiwangsa restaurant was sooooo gd. Perhaps it's the cold weather that makes the food even more delicious. Free flow of vegetables and bee hoon but limited plates of meat. 

A funny conversation happened during dinner.
As you know... we had a bus crash which left us with many bruises.

There were 4 eggs available for steamboat so we decided to cook it and bring home to nurse our bruises! HAHAHA

But in the end after we brought it home, we didn't do it. Instead, that became our breakfast as our hotel stay didn't come with free breakfast. 

Loves hard boiled eggs!